My mom knew her father wouldn't approve either way. She knew if she wanted to be with my dad, she'd have to runaway with him. Despite not knowing she was pregnant with my older brother at the time, she hid in a bunk in the back of my father's van and they crossed the border together.They settled in a largely Mexican neighborhood in San Jose, California.
But I've never dated someone of my own ethnicity: Mexican. And I would say Colombian, but that courtship never blossomed into much after he came over my house and serenaded me with his acoustic guitar. Time and again, after being introduced to a black guy I was dating, my mother either let out heavy sighs or foretold my future under her breath. My dad used his seasonal, strictly temporary passport for work and came to Arizona to pick fruit.ran on Gawker earlier this month we received hundreds of comments and emails objecting to, agreeing with, or otherwise responding to Baker.This week, we're publishing some of those responses as part of a conversation about race and relationships.Christine: We'd talked about the fact that Juan is 100 percent Dominican, born there, and then came here when he was little. There's that difference between [Latin] cultures in the islands and those on the [U. This is an ongoing conversation within the Latin community. But I've come to realize I'm probably more American than she is! Even as a little girl, I had a crush on Joey Mc Intyre from New Kids on the Block.And I was born here and my mom's from Peru, and my dad's from Argentina. It's like, "Oh, I was born in the homeland, and you weren't." Christine: An unnecessary competition of who's more Latino. I grew up in East Harlem, and my high school was mainly Hispanic and black. Ryan: There is a stereotype that in Latin families there's 100 kids running around. I remember the first time meeting Janet's family, I went to her aunt's house and there were 10 adults and 50 kids. "Ryan: The first time that our races really started coming up is when we had our son, Connor.